When we make New Year’s resolutions, we usually look inward: we want to get fitter, save more money, or learn a new skill. These are worthy goals. But this year, what if we also looked outward—right across the street?”
Many of us live near older adults who are aging in place; often facing challenges with mobility, home upkeep, and, most significantly, isolation.
Often, it’s the small, everyday acts of kindness that matter most. Here’s a few ideas to get you started.
1. Start with a Smile and a Hello
Sometimes the first step is simply being seen. A warm greeting or brief chat at the mailbox can help aging neighbors feel noticed and included. These small moments of connection can brighten someone’s day and build trust over time.
2. Make a Casual Offer of Help
Independence matters, so offer help in ways that respect their autonomy. You might say:
- “I’m heading to the grocery store, can I pick anything up for you?”
- “It’s trash day, would you like a hand with your bins?” or if you see their bins are still at the curb in the evening, pull them up the driveway for them.
- “It’s getting hot out would you like me to grab your mail for you?”
- “I’m updating my emergency contacts list. Here is my cell number in case you ever see anything suspicious or have an emergency.”
These small, respectful gestures build trust and keep the relationship neighborly and not overwhelming.
3. Pay Attention to Changes
If you notice newspapers piling up, an overgrown yard, or your neighbor seeming more withdrawn, these may be signs they could use additional support. Gently check in or, if appropriate, reach out to family or trusted local organizations, like Neighbors Who Care, for guidance and support.
4. Encourage Connection, Not Isolation
Many older adults want to remain social but may not know how to start. Let them know about neighborhood events, invite them to community gatherings, chat with them at the mailbox or share a cup of coffee on the porch. Even a five-minute conversation can reduce feelings of isolation.
5. Learn About Local Resources
Being a good neighbor also means knowing where to turn for help. Organizations like Neighbors Who Care provide services such as grocery transportation, meal preparation, friendly visits, and more. You don’t have to do everything yourself. Sometimes being a bridge to the right support is the best thing you can do.
Aging in Place Starts with Community
When we look out for one another, we create neighborhoods where everyone can thrive—no matter their age. By extending just a little extra kindness and attention, you can make aging in place safer and more joyful for the older adults on your street.
Want to do more? Volunteer with us or share our services with a neighbor who may need support. Visit neighborswhocare.com or call 480‑895‑7133 to learn more.
This New Year, let’s build a neighborhood where neighbors care. A stronger community truly starts at the edge of your own driveway.